I'm not into "casual flings" etc, more into wholesome dating haha and I . And we still have a strong party scene its just not all about partying at Gay at UCSB? — College Confidential. Yes and no. I am not sure if UCSB students are bigger partiers than students at any other big university, but there is no doubt that they do and know how to party. If I had to summarize what dating life is like in college, it'd be 'no commitment'. People had always talked about the dating scene but I didn't.